Does My Child Need a Math Tutor? 7 Signs to Watch For

The Big Question

Every kid struggles with math sometimes. But when does "sometimes" become "needs help"?

Here are the signs that indicate it might be time for a tutor.

Sign #1: They're Lost in Class

Occasional confusion is normal. But if your child:

Doesn't understand most of what's taught
Can't follow along with class activities
Feels completely lost during lessons

That's a sign they've fallen too far behind to catch up without extra help.

Sign #2: Homework Takes Forever

If math homework consistently takes 2-3 times longer than it should, something's wrong. Either:

They don't understand the material
They're missing foundational skills
Anxiety is slowing them down

All of these benefit from targeted intervention.

Sign #3: Grades Are Dropping

A sudden drop in math grades — especially if effort hasn't changed — often signals gaps in understanding. By the time grades drop, the problem has usually been building for a while.

Sign #4: Your Help Isn't Helping

You've tried explaining it. You've watched YouTube videos together. You've practiced extra. But nothing's clicking.

Sometimes a fresh approach from someone outside the family makes all the difference. Kids often hear things differently from a tutor than from a parent.

Sign #5: They Avoid Math Completely

Signs of math avoidance:

"Forgetting" homework
Spending ages on other subjects but rushing through math
Getting upset before math time
Physical complaints (stomach aches) around math

Avoidance usually means anxiety or frustration, both of which a good tutor can address.

Sign #6: The Teacher Is Concerned

If the teacher reaches out — or expresses concern at conferences — take it seriously. Teachers see hundreds of kids. They know what typical struggle looks like versus what needs intervention.

Sign #7: Foundational Gaps Are Showing

If your 5th grader doesn't know multiplication facts, or your 4th grader can't add two-digit numbers, there are foundational gaps that will keep causing problems. A tutor can identify and fill these gaps systematically.

When a Tutor Might NOT Be the Answer

If the problem is effort, not ability. Some kids need motivation strategies, not tutoring.

If it's a temporary setback. Missing a week of school might just need some catch-up practice.

If the real issue is anxiety. Tutoring can help anxiety, but sometimes therapy is more appropriate.

If the teaching just doesn't match. Sometimes switching teachers or trying a different curriculum works better than adding tutoring.

Questions to Ask a Potential Tutor

How will you assess where my child is?
What's your approach to building math confidence?
How will you communicate progress to me?
Do you have experience with kids who struggle?
What curriculum or method do you use?

Alternatives to Traditional Tutoring

Online practice tools (like ours!) — For building fluency and filling gaps

Homework help services — For occasional help rather than ongoing tutoring

Small group tutoring — More affordable than 1-on-1

School intervention programs — Many schools offer free math support

Khan Academy — Free video instruction for all grade levels

While You Decide

Keep practicing at home with low-pressure tools:

Building confidence through practice helps whether or not you add tutoring.